This is a huge step and natural to be nervous about it. But I’m sure most people will support you and will be glad that you are a step further on the way to live more free as who you are :)
i sure hope so. x
tbh my heart is beating at double speed because i posted about my new name and pronouns! i’m nervous for some reason
by the way(and i hope every single one of my quite tiny amount of followers will read this)…. i
have decided to undergo a few personal changes related to my gender identity… and i will start here, on tumblr, get used to the changes, and take them further. ok. so, since i could think rationally, i’ve been feeling weird and - som would say - dysphoric about my birthname, Cecilie. I was christened when i was about 4 months old, and my parents thougt the name was cute and international. I personally think Cecilie is a beautiful name, but it doesn’t fit me. I have been genderqueer for my entire life, even though i only realized that there was a term for it(and that other people felt the same way) in 2012. I do for some reason only feel like people have been calling me by name in the last two or three years - before that and when i was bullied, i was just called ‘mc’ because of my surname. Also, my mom is brazilian and pronounces my name like ‘Cecilia’, so I’ve only been hearing ‘Cecilie’ since i met my current friends.
and it’s lovely to be called by your name, but when people do I find myself fascinated and confused at the same time. I’m not Cecilie, Cecilie is a beautiful long haired, blonde girl in my idea of the name.
So to get to the point: I want to go by another name, and legally change my birthname when I’m 18/if my parents allow it. And I have decided on the unisex and genderneutral name Ezra. It’s both international, masculine and feminine at the same time.
I will also gradually change my pronouns from she/sher/herself to they/them/themself!
so if you for example had to introduce me to your friends, you could say ‘this is Ezra, they are genderqueer and I met them at a NIN concert. They consider themself a NIN fan’ (lol i’m a loser yes)
thank you for reading and i hope you will help me become more comfortable with myself and my gender identity!
love Ezra xxxx
Special Agent Dale Cooper | Twin Peaks | s01e02
lmfao this is the most confusing gif set ever? also his underwear is gross as hell